My favorite quotes this week:

“If your leap is an act of love, even if you fall on your face, you will have felt as though you have flown.” Hayden Tompkins
http://persistentillusion.wordpress.com/2008/11/03/the-courage-to-leap/

“Too much drink lowers our inhibitions, but too much broadband can heighten our bravado.” Tim Brownson http://www.adaringadventure.com/blog/wordpress/uncategorized/the-keypad-is-mightier-than-the-sword/

Seriously, who hallucinates about dictionaries and small men fighting over vocabulary? Apparently, I do.” Zoe Westhof http://www.zoewesthof.com/http:/www.zoewesthof.com/blog/geeky-to-the-core

Don’t be afraid to ask for what your time and expertise are worth. Your plumber or doctor don’t give discounts because of economic conditions, and neither should you.” Jodee Redmond http://freelancewritinggigs.com/jobtips/?p=19

“If the world is filled by those who can, and those who can’t as well, then those who can should KNOW they can, then HELP OTHERS to excel.
If NONE of us are stronger, then how can we give assistance, to those of us who life’s seen fit to offer some resistance?” Sean Platt/Writer Dad http://writerdad.com/writing/bright-ideas/

“I am about as handy with tools as a blind monkey in a straight jacket.” Blogger Dad  http://www.bloggerdad.com/handyman-i-am-not/

“I am drinking an Italian Soda (raspberry and lemon flavor). I face away from the center, feeling more exposed than ever. I often peer over my shoulder to see if anyone is watching me write these words. It’s weird, it’s weird, it’s hot in here. No, not like the song, but like there is the passion and determination of a thousand writers and other artists boiling from the center outwards.” Matthew Dryden  http://www.matthewdryden.ca/2008/11/04/us-election-day-means-no-readers/

“Within the last year, I’ve dreamt outrageous dreams of leaving my job and living a new, more rewarding life. I’ve also dreamt of earning a living by creating things of value, and then inserting them into my own agenda.
The first part of my dream has already come true.  I have absolutely no doubt that the rest of the dream will also come to be a reality. In fact, it’s already starting to happen.

I urge you – dare to dream – about what’s possible.  Buy into the story you create for yourself, then fulfill it with happiness and success.” Dave Fowler, guest posting at Writer Dad http://writerdad.com/bloggers-i-heart/jolly-good-then/

It’s been a wild week here in Blogopolis. Here’s my G-rated summary.

“Kindness is the silly puddy version of the never-ending gobstopper. It stretches and stretches and never loses it’s flavor. Even a small amount of kindness can alter a person’s life. So, next time you think you don’t have anything to contribute, please remember kindness. It’s cheap, accessible, and it doesn’t take much of a brain to use.” Oktober 5 http://oktober5.com/2008/dear-posterity-i-was-here/

“I don’t remember sex being as torturous as this.” To which I responded: I don’t think writing is hard, not at all.” Matthew Dryden http://www.matthewdryden.ca/2008/10/29/no-really-writing-is-just-like-sex/

“I want to look at my position through a pair of well rested eyeballs rather than the blood shot blobs I’m currently seeing in the mirror. “ Dave Fowler http://www.teachmychildrenwell.com/2008/10/24/i%E2%80%99ll-sleep-when-i%E2%80%99m-dead/

“It’s a tactic of capitalizing on a person’s inability to control what they say. Silence is the ultimate nullifier of otherwise strong points of reason. No matter how solid the logic, all arguments will fail when given the silent treatment.” Oktober 5 http://oktober5.com/2008/what-to-do-when-someone-says-something-stupid/

“My favorite vanilla pudding taglines are the ones that promise to “deliver results.” Or even better, “results-oriented.” (You aren’t even saying you’ll deliver them. You just think about them a lot. Oh good.) It’s verbal wallpaper. No one knows what this means, and no one cares.” Sonia Simone commenting at CopyBlogger http://www.copyblogger.com/tagline-mystery/

Your blog is not you; it’s not your identity. If it crashes and burns that doesn’t mean you do too. We all want a successful blog with people lining up to comment and pay us homage (I know I do anyway), but it’s really not life and death. Keep some perspective. Go all out to achieve your goals (you have got written goals, right?), but don’t stay attached to the results. Not only will that mean you keep a sense of balance, but conversely it will make you more likely to achieve your aims anyway.” Tim Brownson, guest posting at Problogger http://www.problogger.net/archives/2008/10/27/the-psychology-of-blogging/

“Write about three things constantly: your topic, your thoughts, and yourself. Almost everything you write should have at least a little of all there of those blended together.” Chuck Westbrook http://chuckwestbrook.com/great-content-no-readers/

It’s been a heck of a ride on the blogging roller coaster this week, thanks for hanging on tight.

“Occasionally, one is lucky enough to get “an expert” to write a Guest Post.  This Post, written by Artur Urbanski of http://artursattitudes.blogspot.com, is so much more than luck:  it is Artur’s story of living what we consider “history” behind The Iron Curtain as a boy and young man.  For decades, Western Society has been trying to trade on truths and fictions of what REALLY happened in countries under Soviet Rule.  Artur’s story is NOT a “Guest Post.”  It is an HONOR – one for which I cannot possibly thank him enough.  I am certain that readers will agree.” Rita’s Digest http://bloggrrl.com (NOTE: This is Rita’s note about an AMAZING series of posts by Mr. Urbanski. These are must-reads!)
“Once you feel inspired by basic elements, don’t stop. Release your imagination and figure out how to make the elements you’ve discovered unique.” Harrison McLeod  http://menwithpens.ca/artistic-creative-proces

“It would be a shame if a great story were not shared, if it went to the grave with you, for we are a race of storytellers.” Brett Legree http://6weeks.ca/2008/10/24/viking-fridays-tears-in-the-rain/

“If I was a mugger I’d use vines to swoop down on my victims because that would be very entertaining and they’d feel like they were getting something for their money” Jenny AKA The Bloggess  (This is like the best title ever written!) http://thebloggess.com/?p=677

“Find your own voice. Flaunt it like a bright pink feathered boa. Get naked, wrap your arms around it, and take it to bed. “  from :How Three Drag Queens in a Bus Lead to Better Blogging by James Chartrand http://www.copyblogger.com/priscilla/  (Okay, maybe this one gets the all-time greatest title award. I can’t decide.)

“Communication problems happen because you don’t like what the other person has to say” Corey http://zenhabits.net/2008/10/listen-up-how-honest-communication-can-save-your-marriage/

Have a great weekend everyone, catch you on Monday!

This week’s summary of the best of blogopolis (in my opinion at least, and since I’m paying the Blue Duck bills, the remote control is all mine, hahahaha) has two parts. One is this snazzy compilation below, second is the Blog Action Day Summary from earlier this week. Please feel free to browse both while many bloggers (without OCD) take the weekend off. And just a warning, after this week’s Life with no regrets, Ive been feeling pretty sentimental, so most of these excerpts are about life, not building your business.

The Best of the This Week’s Quotes

“When we write, we discover what’s inside us, bubbling beneath the surface, about to erupt. By getting it down, we’re learning about ourself. E.M. Forster said, “How can I know what I think, till I see what I say?” Word. When we write, we discover what’s inside us, bubbling beneath the surface, about to erupt. By getting it down, we’re learning about ourself. E.M. Forster said, “How can I know what I think, till I see what I say?” Word.” Writer Dad’s guest appearance at Remakablogger. http://michaelmartine.com/2008/10/09/blogger-biographies-writer-dad/

“They’ll tell you things like “Don’t be mean to commenters”. That one really gets on my tits. Sometimes I get assholes on here. If I want to tell them they’re an asshole – that’s my choice. Heck – I even had some idiot show up on here once claiming that blowing up the Twin Towers was an entrepreneurial act. What was I supposed to say? “Great idea – I really admire those entrepreneurs who blow up buildings and murder innocent people.” ?? You will not make money from a blog by being nice to assholes. Assholes don’t visit you to buy and even if they did, you wouldn’t want them as a customer.” Cath Lawson http://cathlawson.com/blog/2008/10/13/making-money-from-a-blog-mistakes-to-avoid/

“I would be lying if I didn’t admit to being scared. Fear nips at my feet and lurks in the shadows, its venomous tongue giving voice to my self doubts. “Who are YOU to think you can write? Everything good has been done. There are no new ideas, no new ways to say things. You suck. Just give up.” But I can’t. There is too much riding on this. This is my earliest dream – to create.Blogger Dad” http://www.bloggerdad.com/

“I love writing. It’s harder than breathing, but easier than doing the dishes.” Sean Platt, http://writerdad.com/writing/on-being-a-chooch/

“In a sugar-rush from a bowl of Captain Crunch, Clark Kent’s Lunchbox hit me. Really, my blog has been like having a child grow up. It was born and I named it, then the next ten months were spent just babbling, drooling and learning how to walk, which is to say I was still figuring things out, but I was growing too.” Ron Mattocks http://www.bloggerdad.com/eight-questions-interview-with-ron-mattocks-of-clark-kents-lunchbox/

Life Happens

I’ll be taking a couple of days off to care for a sick family member out of town, but hopefully I’ll still be able to sneak in a few posts for your entertainment. (We wouldn’t want anyone going through Blue Duck withdrawal, now would we?) But, I may not be around as much to read and join in on the lively discussions that are sure to materialize this week.

“It is hard, and it is scary, but those things in life with the biggest payoff are often the ones that either hurt the most or take the most blind faith.” Writer Dad http://writerdad.com/blogging/scads-of-ads-not-here/

“I failed to realize that content is the soul of a blog. Learn from my mistakes and avoid it in your progression as a blogger.” Wei Liang http://abloggerblog.com/2008/10/lesson-10-quality-content/

“Humour and humility both recognise the foolishness of pretending to be something we are not. They both know that every person is a fallible, messed-up, beautiful human being – and that this is the reason to sing, dance and smile in celebration of being alive.” David~ http://beplayful.org/aspects-of-playfulness-humble-humour/

“Can we schedule in time for a nap or time for tea or time for meditation?” Wendi Kelly http://lifeslittleinspirations.com/my-dog-missed-the-memo

“My children will one day comb through my archives; I write for them.” Writer Dad http://writerdad.com/blogging/seo-i-dont-think-so/

“Discipline is having the time and guts to cut down what you’re saying so your readers don’t have to claw at your hair, trying to see what is going on inside your mind.” Matthew Dryden http://www.matthewdryden.ca/2008/10/09/dont-even-bother-click-that-button-again/

“Blogs that just repeat information already published elsewhere are providing value that can be substituted. To put it another way, these sites are completely dispensable.” Dosh Dosh http://www.doshdosh.com/future-of-content-in-the-age-of-information-overload/

“Progress, it seems, is overrated.” Brett Legree http://6weeks.ca/2008/10/06/for-sale-one-dishwasher/

“Article rewriters will help you quickly change preexisting articles into brand new stories that have the same meaning, but are now re-written with a new style! As more and more people begin to publish on the Internet, the only way to get decent search ranks is by consistently adding unique content to your sites. Who has that kind of free time anymore? If only someone could do something, so I would not have to work so hard. We have heard your lamentable cries for help and in a furious rage of empathy with this laziness; our articles rewriter has created the ultimate tool to help.” From the website Bad Article http://www.badarticle.com/

“What if I say something stupid and you end up jumping off a bridge?”
“The level of stupidity only relies on where the bridge is located.” I offhandedly replied. Mathew Dryden http://www.matthewdryden.ca/2008/10/10/245/

“Pretty much anyone above the age of 17 is not free, and most of the people under 17 aren’t either. You are bound and tied.
There are the usual suspects. Kids, for example, never go away. You’re committed to them for life. Spouses are hard to get rid of. You’re not quite so committed to them — you can stop being married any time — but divorce ain’t exactly something you do between your manicure and your lunch date.” Naomi Dunford http://ittybiz.com/emotional-marketing-freedom/

“In our family, we use this word for hello, farewell, I’m sorry, and, you are absolutely correct. The actual, loose translation, going back to Sanskrit, is “I respect the divine in you, which is also the divine in me.” Namasté = Ethereal aloha.” Sean Platt http://writerdad.com/blogging/namaste/

“I wake each morning with purpose… to teach and to learn.” Daisy http://namasdaisy.com/